Big Tone,
Explain why he was chucked out of the Stoke Mandeville nurses home for bringing back little boys.
I’ve read that too chapeau. I don’t know is the honest answer. But it begs a full enquiry to get at the facts, which is what I hope they do.
Being with children, even on your own, isn’t on and in itself a crime otherwise I’d be on a sex offenders list.
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I only spawned one child, a daughter called Vanessa, and when she was little she had friends who would come out along with me and ‘Ness’. Sometimes they would have a stop-over, I think they call it.
Looking back it was very trusting of their parents but it sends a shiver up my spine to think that if one of them said I touched them inappropriately I’d have no defence whatsoever. And you can bet I would have been guilty until proven innocent with remarks like “well what’s a grown man having children over for anyway?”
Luckily, they knew me for who I am. In fact when I worked in America for two years my daughter and her bestist friend came over to stay with me and my, then, girlfriend. I don’t think I’d do anything like that again because the world has changed and it could be a very different story today, sadly.
Us men aren’t all pervs but, as often is the case, one spoils it for the genuine others. Back in the 80’s was a time when about every other week there was a peado-priest in the news. I sometimes used to feel awkward picking Vanessa up from church, as I did, because she’d sit on my lap and throw her arms around me with a kiss. I felt like people were watching and judging me.
I imagine every father today feels like he’s walking on eggshells just by being with his own daughter or around other children. This is partly why, although I too think he’s as guilty as hell, it’s only right and fair to wait for all the facts to come out before we start burning effigies of him.