Seriously ????

I was abused by the family GP. Totally unjustified rectal exam, I've checked with a couple of Drs. Does that count?
I was very young, 6-7, but remember, he thanked me! No lasting effects.
 
Seriously?
Absolutely. It was the 60's, remember. A different time. Schoolmasters were known to be "dodgy". People just rolled their eyes and did nothing.
Back in the era when Clint in High Plains Drifter raped a girl in the barn, he looked smug, and she went gooey eyed.
Waterhole no3, Soldier Blue, Straw Dogs James Bond even... Stuart Hall, Saville, Rolf Harris all started back then. Other DJ's were accused. DLT was one. Cliff Richard another - it was assumed he was dodgy, but apparently not.
It was an era when it was actually respected or romanticised, to be "getting away with things" with a snigger.
In public/boarding schools you got abused routinely, ask Stephen Fry, Ian Hislop, et al. A hangover of "fagging" from which the term comes. Not to mention churches
I remember an old schoolmaster who would go along the row of cubicles in the swimming baths peering definitely DOWN to assess all the boys.
My late wife talked of a male teacher who would walk along a row of seated girls brushing against their bums. And a woman who sat and watched them get changed.
Another lad I remember was made to jump up and down in the changing room shower because he'd sneaked through it without getting too wet. . The ex-army Teacher obviously enjoyed watching him "flopping"
It was everywhere. Offices, back rows of the cinema, and on and on. Victims, usually female, were "causing trouble" if they complained, or classed as frigid.
One of my first work colleagues was ex Navy, born around 1915-20. Many stories of "Initiations" came up - nuff said. I imagine much of that is gone now.

I find it almost amusing when - usually girls - think it's a new thing when the press gets hold of something.

"The good old days" were pretty nauseating, even without the dentistry.

If you campaigned that "the law should treat everyone the same", you'd likely find out how it didn't...
 
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I was abused by the family GP. Totally unjustified rectal exam, I've checked with a couple of Drs. Does that count?
I was very young, 6-7, but remember, he thanked me! No lasting effects.
Really sorry to hear this mate, glad it hasn't affected you but not something that should have happened.
 
It's much more common than people like to admit. Alcohol a big factor. Like wife beating.

1 in 4 men will commit sexual assault at least once in they're life. Statistics. There used to be more public information videos about this too.
 
WOW just WOW. What a horrible person you are and liked by morqthana too. The chaps who supposedly support the plight of the Palestinian people. Disgusting.

Bantz innit. Plenty of other threads to have a moan or complain about the world without having to be a killjoy on every thread
 
There's also a trend online for fine upstanding members of the community to catch non white men that are hanging around parks etc talking to kids. They are then getting chased away, with a few slaps or punches to help them on their way. On the one hand, very laudable you might think. However, Yaxley Lennon put out an apology after an Asian guy was wrongly targeted. He'd been in a park with his family and the assumption was made, he's a wrong 'un.

I've seen some of these clips. In all the ones I've seen, the foreigners apologise, start crying or run away. They know they are guilty.

I'm mixed race. I have white nieces. If I take them to the park, have I to accept and comply if a few knuckle-draggers approach me, most likely video me, and ask me to account for myself and what I'm doing?

Tell them to f**k off. Then call the police, who will come quickly as it's a racial mater.

Is that what I've to accept?

You should be asking your government that question, for it is the government that has put you in this situation - not Tommy Robinson or the far-right. It is one of the tragedies of mass immigration that innocent, pre-mass immigration British people of foreign extraction get treated this way.
 
Reported.
Making fun of a persons abuse story. You sic feck.
I thought it was funny - a bit harsh on a 7 year old, though.
I forgot about the incident, then years later realised it was wrong.
A rectal exam of a kid isn't unknown, but I didn't have symptoms suggesting it was needed.
 
I was abused by the family GP. Totally unjustified rectal exam
Impacted bowls? I had the same as a young sprog. Our doc was a rugby player and had sausage fingers. My youngest suffered the same complaint as as a sprog too.

A few years ago I had campylobacter poisoning and went to the docs. She did the same but I was already in a bad way having been nailed to the loo for three days. Black lady - massive fingers - sore arris. :mrgreen:
 
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