Seems to be a bit of complex here, just by asking a question with a view to understanding which I find pretty normal. Maybe offence gets taken where none was intended, I suspect. I reckon that has more tendency with the written word sometimes than with the spoken word but there again somtimes the opposite effect happens,
Sometimes the variation of terminology with different disciplines might take effect too.
In my case if am am talking to an electrician I might assume most terms are used correctly and with ordinary folk I might suspect not best terms are actually used ,yet again I know that some Electricians douse those less correct terms than I might expect purely because they have always done so and so have their peers so that persists the discrepancy.
It is said that sometimes I seek clarification from someone I am speaking to , not to outwit them or outgun them but purely to get a grasp on nnot missunderstanding them. That seems normal to me but sometimes it is suggested I am talking down to them (Not just spurs/bulbs/ring mains but with other things too).
In short, to ask for clarification is as simple as that, to ask for clarification or even to learn something and its not a put down so should not be viewed as that.
In order for us all to sing from the same songsheet we should all try to learn the songsheet in order to appreciate the song and then we have a chance of siging it together. or agreeing to disagree.
Sometimes the variation of terminology with different disciplines might take effect too.
In my case if am am talking to an electrician I might assume most terms are used correctly and with ordinary folk I might suspect not best terms are actually used ,yet again I know that some Electricians douse those less correct terms than I might expect purely because they have always done so and so have their peers so that persists the discrepancy.
It is said that sometimes I seek clarification from someone I am speaking to , not to outwit them or outgun them but purely to get a grasp on nnot missunderstanding them. That seems normal to me but sometimes it is suggested I am talking down to them (Not just spurs/bulbs/ring mains but with other things too).
In short, to ask for clarification is as simple as that, to ask for clarification or even to learn something and its not a put down so should not be viewed as that.
In order for us all to sing from the same songsheet we should all try to learn the songsheet in order to appreciate the song and then we have a chance of siging it together. or agreeing to disagree.
