So you want to see some convincing evidence to indicate that you should stop ignoring what the makers say because right now you believe that you know better than them how their products should be installed.That's one way of wording it, and you are free to put it like that if you wish. I would prefer to say that unless/until I see some convincing evidence indicating that I should do otherwise, I am going to continue to do what, as I understand it, is what the great majority of electricians have regarded as the safe thing to do for decades.
Play around with the wording however you like - that is your position - you cannot provide any explanation or theory of why they would specify an inadequate torque but nevertheless you have decided to assume that they have.
