The boiler is a Suprima 80, as you suggest driving 22mm pipe.
As you are also perfectly well aware, the 11C degree differential between Flow and Return is more hope than expectation for the great majority of installed systems DURING WARMUP, ESPECIALLY if they have control PCBs of the level of complexity of the Suprima AND burners with little or no modulation capability.
What ACTUALLY happens, especially if the CH part of the system is running by itself, is that the Flow temperature reaches its setpoint, so that the boiler cycles off and back on, SEVERAL TIMES during the warmup period, before the whole system reaches a stable temperature with whatever differential it can achieve. In many cases, especially when hot water is being heated too, the differential becomes MUCH LESS than 11 degrees.
With the broken system referred to, the ONLY way to achieve your 'stable state' scenario was to inch the system up to temperature by manually turning the boiler off each time it stressed-out, then leave the CH running (with a 9C degree Flow / Return margin!) 24/7. Clearly unacceptable.
If you're suggesting that the typical installer actually bothers (or indeed is able!) to calculate heat losses and flow rates to the level where the resulting system will MAINTAIN a given temperature differential from cold through warmup to stable operation at the boiler Flow setpoint, that's also a completely unrealistic fiction. It hardly ever happens. And it's also a waste of time, IMHO, given the extra features of boiler controllers and burners now available.