I hope someone can help. I have an existing 2 way switch(entrance and exit of room) I want to install a ceiling fan with light operated by remote control. There are 3 wires coming from ceiling red, black, white and of course ground wire. The remote has only a black and white wire that connects to the house wiring and a black, white and black and white mixed wire that connects to the fan and light. The fan and light has a black, white and a blue wire and ground. Question, what color connects to what? 