For practical purposes, I would not recommend throttling the flow to a cylinder coil.
With a 'HW preference' Y-plan with a 3-port valve instead of S-plan with 2 zone valves, you get (effectively) 100% of the flow through the cylinder coil until the hot water is back up to set temperature. This is what most people want, realistically: the HW's run out and they want more, NOW!
When balancing rads, trouble is that to do calculations accurately you need to know flow rates in several different parts of the system - and finding out is difficult.
If you use thermometer readings to set up rads, there's also the problem of the ambient temperature: heat transfer from the rad is dependent on the difference between average surface temperature and that of surrounding air. Obviously, when the air is around 26 - 28 the transfer rate will be lower than when its 17 - 19. So in summer the outlet temp of the rad will be too high and you'll reduce the flow rate and it will then be too low when the weather's colder.
A method I use for systems with a condensing boiler - works for me!:
- turn off hot water heating and put CH on 'continuous'.
- do a rough calculation of total flow rate required to distribute the desired number of kilowatts and set pump to approriate rate.(OK - there are probably only 2 applicable settings - 2 or 3 on the dial - in most cases, but it's best to get the total flow approximately right to start with.) If it's a system boiler or a combi, pump may be modulated by the electronics. If not , and preset by manufacturer, the rate MAY be too high but be careful if you change it..follow MI.
- from the required total Kw output of all the rads (ie. room heatlosses), work out average rad temperature you'll need and set the boiler stat to that + 10%.
- put room stat on max and open all the TRVs or rad main valves to get all the rads hot, then throttle down all the lockshields until they get 'noisy' (faint white-noise from water passing through a small gap).
- starting with the rad closest to the boiler (or to each zone valve), open up each lockshield gradually until the flow-noise stops.
- then go round with a thermometer and check the temperatures on each rad.
If all the inlet and outlet temperatures are in the right ballpark and the valves are not noisy, the system is more or less 'balanced'. If a rad average temperature is too low, open the lockshield more.
- now check the Return temperature at the boiler - hopefully it will be below 56 degrees, allowing the boiler to condense. If not, gradually reduce boiler stat setting until Return temperature is at (say) 52 degrees and see what's happened to rad averages. May be that adequate heat from rads AND condensing mode cannot be achieved together! Depends on rad sizing, etc.
There may be other outcomes during the process: eg. insufficient heat available when all the rads have been set: some rads not hot enough. Increase pump setting (if possible) first, then increase boiler stat setting.
A problem with this method is that it aims to set the minimum flow through each rad 'plus a bit'. If there are TRVs installed, radiators that are still on may get noisy when TRVs in other rooms have closed or when other zones are turned off altogether.