I don't think you are stupid. I think I failed to explain correctly. Sorry
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Luckily Breezer understood where I was coming from.
At this size cable - as you are able to hide the evidence - it is easier to make a single joint using something with suitably large connections capable of handling enough power (as in Breezers example) in a suitable back box. I'd use a twin gang size switch as this will give more space in the back box to run the cables. Placing a switch in the circuit gives you the ability to turn the shower off at a distance, paying the wife back for her unkind 3" comment. Of course in normal use you would leave it alone.
An alternative is a cooker outlet plate
like this one also in a back box. These are cheaper and smaller, and do not give the wife the ability to retaliate when she realises how you turned off the power. The disadvantage is that these are generally recognised as cooker outlets and rarely used for anything else. This might prove confusing to anyone working on these electrics in the future
If the outlet is stamped with relevant BS approval marks and rated at 45A, 240V AC and is not labeled
Cooker (or anything else that isn't
Shower) on the front, you can use it, however I would suggest you label clearly as live, and what it is connected to.