"Lording over"
Do you mean in the sense of having a feeling of superiority? In which case, I do absolutely think I am superior to those that feel the need to egregiously abuse others. So in that sense "lording over" is appropriate.
Or do you mean in the sense of controlling other's behaviour.
I do think I have the right to complain about racism, sexism, etc. I do think everyone has the right to complain about such things.
You appear to want to restrict that right to complain. So if anyone is "lording over", in the sense of controlling other's behaviour, I think you are more prone to it than I.
If you wish to continue to insult me, by all means do so. But please do bear in mind that it does nothing to further your argument. In fact, it demonstrates that you argument is so thin that it needs bolstering and padding out with insults.
My apologies if I have insulted you. Perhaps you'd like to show me where and I will either explain myself, or I will apologise.