Neon screwdrivers do have their uses, but they can be as misleading as they are helpful if you do not understand what they are indicating, which unfortunately you appear not to. You say you are "getting an electrician in, in a couple of days" & frankly that would be the best & safest thing you can do if you have concerns about anything electrical, you really don't need to understand what's going on & that way you won't end up even more confused & feeling insulted, which no-one is trying to do incidentally.