I hate to add to your anguish but TVs should have an air gap behind for ventilation.
Given that the OP has already stated 8" from wall to front of TV, I'd say that there's already a reasonable gap involved. Also, without having actually been looking, all the flat TVs I can recall the details of have had grills top and bottom with a solid panel over much of the flat back. SO air goes in at the bottom, up inside the case, and out the top - as long as vents top and bottom are unobstructed, there should be no issue.
One workaround is to screw vertical wood battens to the wall and screw the TV bracket to them. This minimises the shear loading on the wall, whilst maintaining an adequate air gap.
Shear strength isn't normally the issue. For shear, just one screw in a red plug would hold the weight of the TV up. Where the biggest risk of failure lies is in the top plugs pulling out under tension due to the lever action from the weight being offset away from the wall.
Lets throw some figures at it. Suppose the centre of gravity (CoG) of the TV is 6" away from the wall, and the distance from bottom edge of the bracket to top fixing holes is also 6". The tension in the top screws (ie trying to pull them out of the wall) is the same as the weight of the TV. Increase the height of the bracket by (say) 50% (to 9", ie 3/2 the distance of the CoG from the wall), and the pull out load on the upper screws is now reduced to 2/3 the weight of the TV.
Similarly, if you keep the bracket height the same but reduce the offset from the wall to only 4" (2/3 of 6"), then you also reduce the pull out load on the upper screws to 2/3 of the weight of the TV.
Stick the tv on one of those swivelling arms so the CoG can be up to 2' (24") from the wall, and the pull out load on the upper screws now goes up to 4 times the weight of the TV - that's why they tend to come with some heavy duty fixings. I've got one under my desk (bought for a customer who changed their mind) - it came with expanding bolts for fixing into masonry.