You could use joist hangers, or you could fix some timber to the underside of the rsj using some screws like this to go through the timber and into the flange:
I can’t envision what you’re trying to do with m10/12 bolts, but they seem oversized for the space you’ve got to cover. I’m having trouble following exactly what your desired goal is for a finished ceiling, flush or otherwise, but don’t be afraid to use some of the above mentioned screws (availability in different sizes) to fix wood to an rsj.
You don’t need to pre-drill the steel with them, just use your drill/driver with a suitable torx bit and apply some pressure. It takes a little while for the self tapering to work through the steel (so you’ll feel like it’s not working), but then all of a sudden it’ll get through and the thread with tighten v quickly.