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Not exactly in tune with just about every other post of yours that mentions Germany.
Cross posting Mottie from other threads . We getting old.
It's a Monday - I forgive you.
Not exactly in tune with just about every other post of yours that mentions Germany.
Well, you’ve certainly reinforced that 'norm' with your actions although you didn’t quite just 'walk on by'. You just sat there.
No pointing fingers but...
If you look around a hospital...you will see many posters pinned to wall with such information as,
Our staff will not put up with abuse, with a lady and a black eye made up of make up.
There young carer was too busy swiping left on a known dating website (thats how close i kept coming to her without humiliating the both of them and making a scene as to hint enough as something needed to be done).
With the attitude of mid 20s carer i felt if i were to say something it wouldnt of gone down well and young carer could end up looking like the posters they have everywhere.
What good will that do for me for trying to do the right thing
Easily enough said mottie.Wrong attitude.
I appreciate you feeling awkward but my experience in hospitals is that you have to stand firm. Staff are normally so busy that someone sitting quiet will get left alone no matter what state they are in, as has happened with what you witnessed.No pointing fingers but...
If you look around a hospital...you will see many posters pinned to wall with such information as,
Our staff will not put up with abuse, with a lady and a black eye made up of make up.
There young carer was too busy swiping left on a known dating website (thats how close i kept coming to her without humiliating the both of them and making a scene as to hint enough as something needed to be done).
With the attitude of mid 20s carer i felt if i were to say something it wouldnt of gone down well and young carer could end up looking like the posters they have everywhere.
What good will that do for me for trying to do the right thing
I appreciate you feeling awkward but my experience in hospitals is that you have to stand firm. Staff are normally so busy that someone sitting quiet will get left alone no matter what state they are in, as has happened with what you witnessed.
If you're ever in that unfortunate situation again, get yourself heard for the poor patient.
Just so people know this is not made up.
Why should it fall on a patient with this injury to politley ask 600,000 worth of anual salary if one of them would not mind sparing 5 minutes of there working day and to clean old ladys bum.
I would of done it myself but as per pic, unable to do so.
That's a rather sweeping generalisation and in my experience not true.You will see one doing the majority of the work keeping things going whilst the majority are glued to there phones, sat on a chair gossiping
My dad in law was in hospital for something else for 2 days, he was 87 at the time. When we arrived for our daily visit, he was out for the count and I noticed he was in pain, his body was convulsing every minute or so. I asked a nurse to come look and none were coming. After another 30 mins, I got quite firm, asked to see his notes, asked to see what he'd eaten/drunk and insisted to see a doctor. Turned out that he'd eaten/drunk nothing in the 24hrs or so prior. The food was put down for him but simply taken away untouched.Possibly right.
As a patient who was also expecting care and in alot of discomfort it really shouldnt fall on a patient to ask someone to do THEIR job.
If you ever walk into a hospital again, have a closer look.
You will see one doing the majority of the work keeping things going whilst the majority are glued to there phones, sat on a chair gossiping.