Elderly mum with new bloke???
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It`s a minefield , metaphorically . Just IUD`s instead of IED`s
Bit cheeky there LMB ...... maybe if you could spend the day as a woman you would realise that its actually the men who are often sadly lacking in sexual expertise, desire and understanding of sexuality...... not the women
I understand your need to 'protect' your mum but I think you're making an awfully big assumption. Of course you know her, but only as far as any son knows their mother. I find it hard to believe that any mother would be happy to discuss her sexual needs with her children, particularly a son.
Imagine how shocked you'll be if you 'warn' her off finding a companion for the reason you give and her reply is "yippeeeee ...... I've waited long enough ...... bring it on".
Of course, you may well be right but I think you're under-estimating her and being a bit patronising, if you think she's not aware of a man's attitude to sex.
Personally, I think you've maybe got other reasons for not wanting her to find a man.
Ok.....
I may have worded the opening post badly.
But you're all basing your arguments on the fact it's my mum.
Yep.... thats very easy. I'd say the same.
But the question was....................
I think you may feel differently if it was your mum.
That was the point.
Would you want your mum taken advantage of by gentlemen friends ?
Would you f*ck.
Am I the only sensible man left on this forum ?
I may have worded the opening post badly.
But you're all basing your arguments on the fact it's my mum.
Yep.... thats very easy. I'd say the same.
But the question was....................
I think you may feel differently if it was your mum.
That was the point.
Would you want your mum taken advantage of by gentlemen friends ?
Would you f*ck.
Am I the only sensible man left on this forum ?
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My mum can do as she pleases, she is not without her faculties. Is yours then (serious question)?
J
joinerjohn
My dad met a woman a few years after my mum died (still only in his mid 50's at the time). As long as he's happy, I'm happy for him.(He's over 80 now)
Perhaps your mum's only after a bit of company at her age and therefore you've no need to worry unduly. Who#s to say someone will be taking advantage of your mum? For all you know, it could be your mum taking the advantage.
Perhaps your mum's only after a bit of company at her age and therefore you've no need to worry unduly. Who#s to say someone will be taking advantage of your mum? For all you know, it could be your mum taking the advantage.
"Would you want your mum taken advantage of by gentlemen friends?"
Is she an adult? Would you want her to screen your woman (or man) friends before giving or witholding permission? Would you want her to decide who is allowed to have sex with you, or if you are allowed to do it at all?
Have you got a daughter (or son?)
Is she an adult? Would you want her to screen your woman (or man) friends before giving or witholding permission? Would you want her to decide who is allowed to have sex with you, or if you are allowed to do it at all?
Have you got a daughter (or son?)
Really?????????? And you don't care ?
So if she was shagged and bagged by the married milkman/postman/immigrant tea towel seller you'd be ok with that.????
What has it to do with me?
Really?????????? And you don't care ?
So if she was s*****d and bagged by the married milkman/postman/immigrant tea towel seller you'd be ok with that.????
Really?????????? And you don't care ?
So if she was s*****d and bagged by the married milkman/postman/immigrant tea towel seller you'd be ok with that.????
Yes.
Especially if he could do a few jobs around the house afterwards.
S
Susiejb
Hi LMB I think the problem is that you based your original post on mainly ....some unknown guy wanting sex with your Mum .... as I said do not underestimate your Mums judgement in this.
Putting that aside,I do understand your concern.....does she have someone in mind, if so is it someone that you know and trust.
You are assuming that someone will take advantage of your Mum ..... but she sounds like a smart lady and I am sure that she is not incapable of making a sound judgement of someones character.
It can very lonely LMB to be alone and your Mum has had 11 long years of it, I think you should support her in this, try not to be too judgemental, meet the friends that she makes, there are lots of lovely guys out there who are lonely too, she sounds like a fine lady and you are obviously very proud, give her the credit that she deserves in making a wise choice, she is still relatively young and has many years ahead to enjoy happiness and companionship .... I really hope she finds someone really nice and worthy of such a special lady.
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Putting that aside,I do understand your concern.....does she have someone in mind, if so is it someone that you know and trust.
You are assuming that someone will take advantage of your Mum ..... but she sounds like a smart lady and I am sure that she is not incapable of making a sound judgement of someones character.
It can very lonely LMB to be alone and your Mum has had 11 long years of it, I think you should support her in this, try not to be too judgemental, meet the friends that she makes, there are lots of lovely guys out there who are lonely too, she sounds like a fine lady and you are obviously very proud, give her the credit that she deserves in making a wise choice, she is still relatively young and has many years ahead to enjoy happiness and companionship .... I really hope she finds someone really nice and worthy of such a special lady.
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Deeply hurt by that comment
Interesting subject I thought john...........Don't like it f*ck off.
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