Just before the in/out referendum I remember that a certain Tory Prime Minister (Cameron) went to Europe to argue for reforms to the EU. I think they told him to bugger-off. I think he argued there was a danger of Britain voting to leave the EU if they didn't agree to reform. He came back with nothing.
We had said referendum. Just before it I joked with mates that I'd "vote leave in the first referendum, then stay in the second one in October if the first went the 'wrong way' ". I admit I was wrong about the second vote being in October but, after the way the vested interests and remoaners have bleeted and mobilised to undermine the democratic will of the people, I am more determined than ever to make sure we get out of the EU, and stay out until it substantially reforms. if they get their way, and we vote to stay, we will have far less influence that we had before. The German dominated EU will effectively tell us to "shut up, sit down, and conform".
I remember the Danes having a referendum on some previous EU treaty ratification, was it Lisbon, Maastrict, or some other? They voted 'the wrong way' and, guess what, they had a second vote, which went 'the right way'. There have been no further votes (best of 3 perhaps?).
I remember the General Synod (or similar) of the Church of England voting NOT to allow the ordaining of women vicars/priests. Clearly this was 'the wrong way' because a couple of months later they voted again, the 'right way'. There have been no further votes on the matter.
I firmly believe that the Europeans (who are not a single entity, rather a collection of countries dominated by Germany), have more to lose by playing hard ball with the UK, or rather the Germans have much more to lose and will cadjole their 'unterlings' into projecting a united European front. I also firmly believe that when it becomes clear that we will have a hard Brexit the EU will panic and capitulate (not saying the Italians will change sides, or the French will collaborate). The mess that is the EU will start to unravel and some EU reforms will be fast tracked through to try to entice us to stay or re-vote.
Even if we have a Hard Brexit, we will quickly adapt, as we have always done, and come out on top. There will be pain on both sides, and both sides will lose out, but if the alternative is to carry on down this path of a German dominated Europe then it's best we get out as soon as possible.
MM