I am looking after her financially, she will be quite comfortably off once it is all sorted. It's not her only property, she also owns outright a 4-bed home and 5 hectors of land.
Boot on other foot - Would you donate a very substantial sum of money, to someone you have only known a few months, taking the risk of them simply walking away? Most everyone spends much more than 1/3 to 1/2 of their income on simply living. She will be considerably wealthier here, with a healthy bank balance of her own.
Sorry Harry, but it sounds to me like you’re (possibly inadvertently) trying to make her financially dependent on you. That’s not right or fair…
What money are you donating to her? I must have missed that bit.
Sounds like you don’t love or trust this person…which is fair enough if you’ve only known them a couple of months. So why do you expect any different from her?
It really strikes me that you’re rushing this person to move in with you. Why so? Do you want help with the bills, or do you want companionship, or someone to look after you?
You’re supposed to be in the honeymoon period, money shouldn’t matter.