In my day it was done with strict parenting as it should be now rather than trying to find some complicated technical solution.
I have that feeling if my children started hitting their children with a dog lead as my sister regularly got, not me I was a good boy, I think it could generate a court case. One is not allowed to parent children in the same way. As said over the sex scandal don't think it was ever right, however it was accepted.
At 7 I had to get my self up for school and there was no parent in the house, mother in hospital father in work, today that would not be allowed. But when I was 7 my dad and next door were the only people in the street with cars. So there was not the danger we have today.
Parking a van outside your house when I was a boy would have had the council knocking the door reminding one your not allowed to run a business from the house.
We can automate lights, we can get PIR light switches and timer light switches, I have worked in an office with PIR lights and had to wave hands to get them back on, in factories the lights were on large contactors so it switches all three phases at 16A per phase, we found problems controlling large areas with one switch because some one would be in that area that the person switching was unaware of, the same could happen in the home, crossing the room to turn a light back on is one thing, moving through the house is something else, the house would need to be really tidy nothing ever left on the floor.
Our kids were not allowed TV after a set time, but it was not remotely turned off, we trusted them, and they were caught out when they watched something funny they would laugh, caught.