Exactly, which is why I don't really understand why you introduced the diversion of this discussion about how/why the 'abbreviated' form of "would have" should be written, since that is irrelevant to what started all this.Because people do not omit the 'ha' in speech but only the 'h'. The astoundingly stupid 'would of' has come about because some people pronounce 'would have' like that, thus proving that they do not even know what they are saying.
As you say, the 'astounding stupid' (I would say 'extremely irritating') "would of" is written by people who say that, and the reason that say is is that they have heard people voicing a strung-together/semi-abbreviated version of "would have" and think they are actually hearing (or maybe are hearing, if they are listening to another 'perpetrator') "would of". The start of this process has absolutely nothing to do with how abbreviations are written. Of course, once one person starts writing "would of" (for the above reason) then others might see and copy the same in writing.
Maybe I led you into your diversion by writing " would've " when trying to describe what it was that they had 'mis-heard' (or correctly heard from some other culprit!). Perhaps I would not have 'led you astray' had I described it with an attempt at a phonetic rendition, maybe something like " wood-erv " ?
I know that you like having arguments with me about language at weekends, but that accusation really isn't fair In relation to the matter we've been discussing, there is no way that I have been inventing excuses for, or in any way defending, a particular 'sloppiness' of language which I dislike (and am irritated by) just as much as you do (or are). As I said at the very start ...I really do not understand why you think it necessary to invent excuses for such mistakes and think there is nothing wrong with them being perpetuated. If people aren't very bright then their mistakes should not be forced on the rest of us.
I have never excused, or attempted to justify or support, such language.Is that not .... a case of someone 'mis-hearing' something they have only heard spoken, and not seen written? ...
Yes, that is 'sloppy' - presumably an attempt to write (phonetically) what people think is being said when others say (also 'sloppily', at least in the eyes of my late English teacher!) "would've" and "should've"?
Mind you, one way of looking at it (at least, part of the 'cause') is, as you say, that it is a case of " dropping 'h's " and, when people do that, there is nothing that you or I (or anyone else) can say or do that will change that habit (although I would probably 'stand well back' if I decided that I should try to 'correct' them ).
Kind Regards, John
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