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A marriage that is not legally recognised as a marriage is just a ceremony.I think we are still having a terminology issue.
I would say that the same sex marriages carried out in the DOMA years, in the eight states which allowed it, were lawful. It is just that they weren't recognised at the federal level. Or in other states.
If you pass a law..
that permits same sex marriages to be banned and non-recognition of same-sex marriages for all federal purposes, including insurance benefits for government employees, social security survivors' benefits, immigration, bankruptcy, and the filing of joint tax returns.. and also excluded same-sex spouses from the scope of laws protecting families of federal officers, laws evaluating financial aid eligibility, and federal ethics laws applicable to opposite-sex spouses etc.
You are left with a lawful ceremony.