Fit flow restrictors in the outlets, partially close the service valves in the pipework (this will probably create unwanted noise), fit pressure reducing valve(s) as required.
However it's all a waste of time - your electric shower has no means of temperature control in it. The only thing which determines the temperature is the flow rate through it, more flow = cooler water out, less flow = hotter water out. Most electric showers are the same - when you 'turn up the temperature' all you are doing is reducing the flow of water through the heating chamber.
One of the few which has semi-reasonable temperature control is the Mira Advance ATL, but that costs c. £300. It's still feeble compared to any other type of shower, and a thermostatic mixer can be had for substantially less.
However it's all a waste of time - your electric shower has no means of temperature control in it. The only thing which determines the temperature is the flow rate through it, more flow = cooler water out, less flow = hotter water out. Most electric showers are the same - when you 'turn up the temperature' all you are doing is reducing the flow of water through the heating chamber.
One of the few which has semi-reasonable temperature control is the Mira Advance ATL, but that costs c. £300. It's still feeble compared to any other type of shower, and a thermostatic mixer can be had for substantially less.