When divorce doesn't mean divorced.

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I just read that story in the paper, he should of had 'full and final payment' when he handed over the 230,000.

Andy
 
Wills can be contested.
My dad has contested his wifes will. She passed away last year and left him precisely jack schitt out of her £1.2 million estate after 12 years of marriage.
 
None of my business mate but don't married couples make a will to benefit the remaining partner when one dies?
For sure, there's a few folks that will benefit from my estate, and some others that are getting nowt....not contestable, I hope :confused:
John :)
 
All wills can be contested . Wasn't there a woman who cut her lazy idle daughter out of her will and she went to Court and got some degree of payout.
Anything can be contested, solicitors love it.
 
None of my business mate but don't married couples make a will to benefit the remaining partner when one dies?
For sure, there's a few folks that will benefit from my estate, and some others that are getting nowt....not contestable, I hope :confused:
John :)
I think that you have to make a will after getting married stating that the wife/hubby doesn't automatically get the money once married, and that any wills written prior to marriage are null once married. At least I think that's how it worked.
 
Alas, I'm the end of my family line so no one to benefit on my side.
So, all will go to my wife's side.....some are maybe worth it, others are a waste of space. If these particular individuals challenge things and benefit, I'll be back to haunt :ROFLMAO:
I'll hear the cries of Bingo in due course :D
Best get spending!
John :)
 
I think that you have to make a will after getting married stating that the wife/hubby doesn't automatically get the money once married

I don't think that's worth the paper its written on either. Once you sign the marriage certificate you sign away part of your wealth to the other person.
Who ever is the richest is the biggest loser.

My aunts hubby died and his 120 acres of farmland was to be divided up between their four sons in his Will. My aunt was to get her day in the farm home stead.
Anyway the Will was contested and my aunt owns half and she can give that chunk to her daughter when she passes. The 4 brothers are then left to fight over whats left. And that's exactly what they are doing. The will didn't count for didly squat.
Illegal wills are written out all the time and signed off by solicitors.
 
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Unfortunately, lawyers will contest anything, and judges don't always have the common sense to adjudicate properly.

A sensible will determines where the deceased assets will go, but if you cut the partner out without good reason, and adequate provision, then they can contest it. If you don't make a will (and it's not a necessity or an obligation to make one) then you die intestate, and the next of kin has to apply to the court to divvy up the estate. We don't do pre-nups yet, but they'll come, so at the moment, you marry, and the other half's then entitled to your estate if there's no will.

Make a will, but get a damned good lawyer to make it watertight, and if you don't someone to get the dosh, then leave it to a charity, as they fight tooth and nail to hold onto it.

In this court case, I can see the value of increasing the payments inline with inflation, but the judge ordering the husband to support the ex for life, just tells her to not to re-marry, and she could live with a new partner without losing her payments. I can see this one going to the supreme court.
 
The battle axe my dad married wanted him to sign a pre nup.
I don't think she ever forgave him for not doing so.
 
The battle axe my dad married wanted him to sign a pre nup.
I don't think she ever forgave him for not doing so.
We don't know the whole story of your dad etc, but although your dad probably shouldn't have been left with nothing, I don't see why he should've been left with everything - unless he was part of the team that helped her amass her fortune. I presume it was second marriages all round? Also, did she have kids?
 
It absolutely sickens me,, the children who feel they have to inherit from parents. Kids grow up and (usually) have contributed very little, monetary wise, to their parents. When my mum died, my younger sister was always on the phone to dad,,,, Usually it went along the lines of "Grandma says I should have this, I should have that etc, etc. I paid her a visit and told her in no uncertain terms to leave dad alone. Stop bothering him with phone calls. As things are, dad re-married and I'm happy for him. What he does with his money, personal stuff, in his will, (when he eventually shuffles off this mortal coil) is between him and his solicitor. I know dad helped me a lot when I started in my chosen profession (student nurses don't actually get paid as such) I'll admit I was quite dependant upon my parents in my early years, even though money was "tight". If my dad leaves me nothing in his will, I'd still be happy that he (and mum) helped me out. I do help my dad as often as I can, doing odd jobs for him and my step mum (taking them both shopping and out on day trips, cook meals for them etc) We should all be grateful for what we actually have, instead of looking forward to what we think we should inherit. (or believe we are entitled to)
 
It absolutely sickens me,, the children who feel they have to inherit from parents. Kids grow up and (usually) have contributed very little, monetary wise, to their parents. When my mum died, my younger sister was always on the phone to dad,,,, Usually it went along the lines of "Grandma says I should have this, I should have that etc, etc. I paid her a visit and told her in no uncertain terms to leave dad alone. Stop bothering him with phone calls. As things are, dad re-married and I'm happy for him. What he does with his money, personal stuff, in his will, (when he eventually shuffles off this mortal coil) is between him and his solicitor. I know dad helped me a lot when I started in my chosen profession (student nurses don't actually get paid as such) I'll admit I was quite dependant upon my parents in my early years, even though money was "tight". If my dad leaves me nothing in his will, I'd still be happy that he (and mum) helped me out. I do help my dad as often as I can, doing odd jobs for him and my step mum (taking them both shopping and out on day trips, cook meals for them etc) We should all be grateful for what we actually have, instead of looking forward to what we think we should inherit. (or believe we are entitled to)
All irrelevant now anyway, most of it goes into care homes!

And yep, I agree, it's up to the parent to decide what to do with their money, it's theirs innit. But I can also see the other side of the coin, if a parent was to remarry, then money left to the new partner (no worries) then the kids may feel put out if then money is left to the new partner's family who have made even less contribution. Money always makes things very messy in things like that and can bring out the worst.

Personally I would like to see my pops (my parent remaining) go mad and enjoy himself. I hope he goes to Vegas, gambles & drinks it away, while going to a trekkies convention or two.. Sorted. I would like things like family photo's to be left to me. Those are precious as am more sentimental. :)
 
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