Thanks for your kind advice
Why have you changed your username? seriously what I said wasn't supposed to be nasty, but you need to assert yourself more, you're getting trampled on which is never good for anyone's state of mind.
Take me for example, I'm always right, even when I'm demonstrably wrong.! Never be afraid to ask questions or ask for help, but a) do some research first b) don't ask the same questions over and over. c) Have the courage of your convictions and back it up with the research you've done and how you came to your conclusion.