Victim blaming.
It isn't about how sensitive the victim might or might not be. It's about the attitude of the one doing the abusing.
If it were in a domestic situation it would be called psychological domestic abuse.
Blaming, shaming, and
name calling are a few verbally abusive behaviors which can affect a victim emotionally. The victim's self-worth and emotional well being are altered and even diminished by the verbal abuse, resulting in an emotionally-abused victim.
More subtle emotionally abusive behaviors include
insults, putdowns, arbitrary and unpredictable behavior, and
gaslighting (e.g. the
denial that previous abusive incidents occurred). Modern technology has led to new forms of abuse, by text messaging and online
cyber-bullying.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_abuse
Fortunately I'm sufficiently self-confident to withstand it. But that doesn't excuse the abuser.
If you're into victim blaming there's no such thing as rape, it'll be the victim's fault.
