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I know what you mean. Usually I can't be asked but it does irritate me somewhat when people have an opinion about someone without knowing anything about that person or their circumstances!
Bill, it would have been better if you had explained your circumstances better at the outset and what you needed and why.
People form an opinion based on what information they see.
Many working people look down on the unemployed as scroungers even though some are genuinely going through hard times through no fault of their own.
I even expect you did that too as a bus driver when the unwashed, unshaven, confirmed non workers got on your bus at 11.30 to go and sign on!
People's viewpoints depend on where they are looking from!