Ah OK, those are pretty much what I have. It's not that I'm trying to over-tighten it, but everything's so tight under the sink that I can only turn it a few mm each time, then try to approach form a different angle etc, and then the jaws slip off, chewing the nut.You shouldn't need to go THAT tight... It's not under any real pressure!
I use these and just get it in there however I have to!
Silverline Wide Jaw Plumbing Pliers Length 250mm - Jaw 85mm (633562)
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Full disclosure - before trying the Plumber's Mait etc, I just HAD to try nipping it all up with no sealant of any kind, so now of course I'm desperately trying to build an ark to escape the flood. Lesson learned
When everything's fully dried out later, I'll try making Mait sausages...