Amsie - i have 700x400 porcys on my own bathroom wall, one wall is onto skim and i know its way over the official tile weight, its been fine for 4 years. When i take the gamble and ignore the official stated way then its on my head, i can't tell a customer that 'it'll be alright' because if it goes t**s up then it comes back to me.
I've been in the industry for 19 years myself, 6 of which was as a tiler and we employ and sub contract tilers for domestic and commercial contracts. I know that in the real world there are often compromises to be made good and bad. Some cost real money because of time and the faff involved, some are just a case of being stubborn. Using PVA in this day and age instead of a straight swap for acrylic makes no sense to me.
Granfix for instance, will happily recommend that a customer fixes onto a painted surface, if its scored\abraded and then acrylic bonded, dont really see the point of bending this one?
I'm not after an argument either, but i'll give the same advice on here as i would at the counter, this is the way you should do it to get backed by the manufacturer, alternatively you can use method xyz but your sort of on your own....