A missing friend

[JohnW2]

People just move on and move away. Life changes etc....he be fine...

Yes, that happens. The longer EFLI and Harry remain 'missing', the more we will come to 'assume the worst' but, in general, such 'conclusions' are not always going to be correct.

In my time, when a forum/whatever has become too unpleasant/ridiculous/whatever, I have simply 'walked away', with no comment or warning, never to be seen in the place ever again - and those there might well 'think the worst'.

However, having said that, I don't think there is any reason (in fact, quite the contrary) to think that either EFLI or Harry would have had any reason to do that - i.e. I would think it extremely unlikely that either of them would just 'walk away' with no comment, explanation or 'warning'.

 

[ebee]

We can only hope for the best outcome - lads if you are there come out let us know please - your forum needs you.

 

[JohnW2]

We can only hope for the best outcome - lads if you are there come out let us know please - your forum needs you.

Indeed. However,unfortunately, I don't think your pleas for them to 'let us know' are going to achieve anything. I thik we have to assume, in both cases, that their failure to respond to forum discussions, DMs and e-mails means either that they have not seen any of that and/or that, for whatever reason, they have not been able to respond.

 

[pete01]

Indeed. However,unfortunately, I don't think your pleas for them to 'let us know' are going to achieve anything. I thik we have to assume, in both cases, that their failure to respond to forum discussions, DMs and e-mails means either that they have not seen any of that and/or that, for whatever reason, they have not been able to respond.

I assume you know his real name? Have you tried checking Facebook?....obviously you dont want to stalk the chap

 

[JohnW2]

I assume you know his real name? Have you tried checking Facebook?....obviously you dont want to stalk the chap

Yep, I know EFLI's real name, as well as his e-mail address, but extensive online searches have found nothing relevant. I assume that the name Harry is using is probably 'real', so have also searched for that - but again without any success.