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groovynooby
I'm late to the party, as usual.
I can't see what the poblem with giving up is.
I used to smoke for over ten years, from about fourteen to about twenty-six. (Used to use my dinner money and paper round wages to buy cigs, before I started work proper. That's how cheap cigs were in those days.)
I realised it was an expensive habit and it was no good for my health, so I stopped. Just stopped. OK, I admit it took me a couple of goes, but that was years before patches, tablets, or any other "treatment" was available.
I doubt if even the doctors were sympathetic to "giver-upers" in those days.
Some of my siblings still smoke, as do some of their children, despite having two cases of cancer in the family, (both smokers), one terminal.
One has dabbled numerous times with e-ciggies.
I'm sorry to say that when I was younger I couldn't/wouldn't consider or stay in a relationship with a partner that smoked.
I suspect I would still have that same approach to potential partners.
Congratulations on giving up but, regardless of your experience, millions of people do have a problem with giving up.
