I'll say it - It's a cylinder!
Does the shape matter?
I wish I could get my head around that.
My house, living room has two radiators of around 2 kW each, what ever boiler I have, can't see it modulating to 4 kW. So boiler works on a mark/space ratio.
Now mother had a boiler with a reservoir built in, so it did not matter if tap at a dribble or full bore, we got hot water, but the response time was too slow, take a shower and the reservoir would run out, before the boiler was hot enough to take over. Put it on Eco setting, and then turn the tap on anything but full, and no hot water.
As to efficiency, can't see how one can work it out. There must be a quantity of water used, where it breaks even, but every home will be different. Getting domestic hot water (DHW) from a boiler with a cylinder, the slewing range of temperature is important, set at 30°C it may only fire up once a day, set to 1°C it will be turning on/off all the time.
So it is near impossible to work out a happy medium as also depends on distance boiler to tank.
No, not in your case. Horses for courses...
That is the problem, there is no one answer fits all. When I had a Main 7 fitted, must be 30 years ago now, before combi boiler were main stream, it was to save space, and it did, the airing cupboard became first a bedroom, then an office. But the pipe work boiler to kitchen taps was unchanged, and the delay getting hot water to the taps was quite long.
Two delaying factors added together, one how long the boiler takes to fire up and get hot, and two how long it takes that water to get through the pipes, so boiler in kitchen, and main hot water use in kitchen, and the delay is acceptable, boiler in garage, and then the delay becomes a problem, I could nearly fill a bowl with cold water before the hot arrived.
I have considered under counter 7 litres water heaters, to reduce the delay, but every home is different, I have two kitchens front and back, two shower rooms, plus a bathroom so 5 places I want hot water. Last house I have lived in, only had 2 places, bathroom and kitchen, mothers house 3 places shower room, bathroom and kitchen.