What size is the supply likely to be?
Depends on the car - he needs to decide what he's going to have. or might have, and find out from the maker(s).
e.g. I believe that a Tesla with the high-power charging option needs a 100A supply (single-phase).
What sort of connector does it use?
Whatever standard connector you'd use to plug in a load that needs x A at yV. So over here that would be an IEC 60309. You should find out if he has/can get/would like 3-phase, if his car can use it.
He might like to have his own EVSE box hard-wired in, which would provide an
IEC 62196 outlet.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charging_station
http://images.google.com/images?q=evse
Anything else to consider?
How about how on earth we could ever build a network of EV charging stations or facilities which could deliver the same, or even reasonably equivalent, rate of energy transfer, as a petrol or diesel pump. At 40l/min a pump is delivering about 400 kWh/minute. Assuming it takes you 2-3 x as long to go and pay as it does to fill up, a busy petrol station with a dozen pumps would need an electricity supply of the order of 100MW to equate.
OK - that ignores the relative efficiency of IC vs electric motors in cars, and the willingness of drivers to hang about for longer to fast-charge their vehicles, but even if those combine to knock an order of magnitude off, how are you going to deliver 10MW to your typical non-motorway garage?
Where are we going to get all that electricity from? By keeping coal-powered power stations running? Does that make EVs lower polluting than a modern IC engined vehicle, or does it just move the pollution somewhere else?
Like FITs the whole idea collapses if everybody decides to drive electric cars, and like FITs, it looks as if the vehicle excise duty, purchase grants, congestion & parking charges, free charging circuit installation etc incentives are going to be used to make everybody else pay to subsidise the pointless vanity projects of the smugly ignorant.