Wrong again, what you saw was rapid combustion, not detonation. Look up the definition : A violent expansion in which energy is transmitted outward as a shock wave.
It was a fuel-air explosion, although not a very effective one because the mixture was probably too rich. It was the same as an explosion caused by a domestic gas leak. The military FAEs are effective against buildings because the pressure wave will lift the roof and fold the walls outwards.
Burning usually involves combustion at the interface between the fuel and air and its speed is limited by the rate of air movement bringing in fresh oxygen. Dispersing the fuel into the air (coal dust, flour, gas, vapour, liquid droplets,etc) can cause an explosion but it's still very slow compared to HE.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fuel-air_explosive