A fundamental difference is most of my /our stuff is retrofit. U have a 20+ year old system & u r plonking a hi tech boiler onto it. My policy is to get as much out of it as possible rather than just bang it on the wall.
Some (lots) of the new boilers are looking at new installs adding NTC into cyls that are designed for that. Here we have to use a on off tank stat. To get the 2 temps u can use the WC pins to add a high resistance to kid the boiler its cold outside so it will max out the flow temp whilst the resistor is in place. If u can sort it that the resistor is added when hot water is called - well u have hot water priority and when the hot water is satisfied the heating continues back to whatever type of roomstat is controlling it be it an on off stat with the set temp set by the owner or O/Therm.
Electrically its easier to do this on a Y plan by converting a Y plan 3 port mid position to a 3 port diverter valve by joining White & grey & not using the orange. As long as the boiler has a separate signal for DHW and WC it will work this way. (Some MU like WB dont just add a ntc to the outside wall - that have to add a WC module including the electronics that make it work (con job) so this only works on WC that just needs an external sensor.)
The relay (simple 240V from Maplins) sits inside the boiler bat can go anyplace
We r lucky with our forum as it closed. Unlike a lot of chest beating that goes on in open forums we suffer very little from that. Everyone seems very helpful no mater what the experience of the poster. We have every single aspect of the gas world represented from agents, BG , meter fitters Industrial, oil, (dare I say sparkies) and plenty clued up IT boys. We have an amazing reference library as well. Most everybody contributes. I am in the throws of doing a 'paper' on NTC's. There is always someone will think of somat you haven't so it all gets covered in the end. The one thing that 99% have in common is plumbing!
Its a shame u cant have one for NIC + elecsa members only.
Perhaps we should have honorary members !
If u ever need to mull over some ideas u should contact some of us as there are plenty who like to mull over circuits and offer suggestions! Plus by the looks of it our drawings are prettier than yours!