I have always bought automatics since I bought my first car in 1965 - a 1955 Mk1 Zodiac - and noticed the difference.
I cannot understand why they are not the norm.
Imagine automatics had been all there was when cars were invented and then, later on someone said I have invented the manual gearbox where you can now change gear yourself hundreds of times every day.
Do you want one?
Early European ones were pretty horrible. American auto boxes could get away with only having three speeds, because they were usually mated to 10 squillion litre V8s that had so much torque they didn't really need gears anyway, but when used in small engined European cars, I always found the gaps between ratios too big. The other traditional objection to them, was the additional fuel consumption, due to the torque converter (in effect) being a constantly slipping clutch. (Note that the old DAF Variomatic "rubber band powered" cars with CVT were an honourable exception to this)!
Gradually, auto boxes evolved. They developed lock-up in the higher gears to help reduce inefficiency and they grew a load more gears. We also started seeing the introduction of "automated manual" gearboxes, like VW's DSG boxes, which did away with the torque converter altogether.
For me, however, the Achilles' Heel of all auto (and automated manual) gearboxes, has been their inability to foresee events. If I want to overtake in a manual, I can drop down a gear in anticipation. I can have my engine revved-up and right in the "meat" of its power band, ready for the opportunity. With an auto, you have to press the pedal and wait for it to faff-around kicking down.
Auto boxes have got to the point where I could just about live with one, if I really had to. The 7 speed DSG box in Mrs. Avocet's Skoda is a world away from the horrible 3 speed Borg Warner in my old 1980s Citroen or my 1970s Scimitar. However, the absolute ultimate in that respect, is the EV. No gears = no kickdown wait. It's just
there, "BANG", instant, the car has started accelerating before the throttle pedal has even reached the carpet. I used to be quite impressed with Mrs Avocet's DSG, but when I get into it after the EV, it's just
awful! Plant the throttle and get a good book out while I wait for it to decide what gear it wants and spool its turbo up!