For me it's a very different experience having the conversation with the professional if I've already had a conversation with a few other people (on here) who know something about the subject, idea and possible pitfalls or ways of doing it.
I'm less likely to make absolutely stupid requests or suggestions, and I'll be in a better position to understand what the professional is telling me. I'm also less likely to get overwhelmed by trying to take on a lot of information at once whilst also likely being asked for a decision.
I'm less likely to make absolutely stupid requests or suggestions, and I'll be in a better position to understand what the professional is telling me. I'm also less likely to get overwhelmed by trying to take on a lot of information at once whilst also likely being asked for a decision.