you are not supposed to put 13 amp sockets on a lighting circuit THEN DON'T DO IT. It is actually not forbidden
Dear go3easy. Please be aware that there has been much discussion about this little issue.
Winston has a very short attention span and he (conveniently) forgets anything that does not meet up with his personal position on how the World should be run (ie rules according to Winston).
BS 7671 actually
SPECIFICALLY ALLOWS a BS1363-2 socket to be attached to a lighting circuit.
Winston, please see regulation 559.6.1.1
Winston will also tell you that an FCU (BS1363-4) must not be attached to a lighting circuit. Well it jolly well can.
So if you need a 13A square pin socket on your lighting circuit, then go ahead. Winston will warn, "what if someone plugs a MIG welder, or an induction hob into the socket!!??".
Well, nothing will happen, as the circuit will be protected by a 6A current-limiting device (MCB, etc)
I may be able to provide a better guidance on how to answer your original question, can you provide a better picture of the wiring behind the switch. Specifically, is there a terminal block there with a lot of blue (neutral) wires in it?
And, do you have a voltage tester, like a multimeter (NOT a neon screwdriver)?