Because it's like being put on the naughty step. You're supposed to think about what you've done, reflect on you're behaviour, and hopefully, learn to play nicely with the others.
You see, doggit. that is three of my responses to your comment that have been deleted.
Someone is struggling. It is not a case of one reflecting on their behaviour, it is more a case of conforming to their political agenda, and submitting to their insults without protest.
I cannot comment on moderation, in any way, not even to discuss it in general terms, yet others can blatantly attempt to insult me and my make-believe spouse, without their comments being moderated in the slightest.
It is blatant trolling by an uneducated fool. One who cannot spell, his grammar is non-existent and he struggles with counting!
He tells bare-faced lies, invents stories to suit his political and prejudiced beliefs, and pretends he is ignoring me!
He makes gasbanni look positively ingenious.