Actually I voted out for similar reasons, not so much 'one size fits all', but more to do with the risk that increasing the level of centralisation of trade agreements and regulations brings concentration of power.
I think your part of a group campaigning to remain... Your mission is to convert us thick leavers. Its a job. Someone has to do it. It doesn't make you a bad person. Your good nature has shined through all this. But I can now see your getting frustrated as this is real now and you are undoubtedly passionate.